The Art of Writing a Great Love Letter
Love letters are a form of romantic communication seen less and less in the modern age. The advent of mobile phones, computers, e-mail and social media has all but put paid to the classic love letter. The sentiment lives on in songs and poems, videos on the internet and e-cards; but nothing says romance like a handwritten letter S.W.A.L.K (sealed with a loving kiss.) Whether you're writing to your partner separated by hundreds of miles or sending mail to the home you share for a romantic surprise, a love letter shows that you've gone the extra mile and we take a look at how best to execute this archaic form of chivalry.
Before we get on to what you should consider including in the content of the letter itself, take a moment to think about the material you're going to use. This includes the paper, the envelope, and the pen at least. Other inclusions might be any cologne you choose to spray the letter with, a classical touch that gives it that personal feel. Try to get some good quality paper and use a fountain pen if possible, nothing says rushed like writing with the biro you found in the folds of your sofa. Have you been practising your calligraphy?
When you're writing to your partner, you should start off by letting them know exactly what this letter is for. Many of us are intimidated by unfamiliarity and if we receive a handwritten letter from our husband or wife, we might begin to fear. Start the letter in the correct tone and let them know it's a dedication of your love.
One of the most popular (and effective) methods of conjuring the "oohs" and "awws" from your other half is to talk about your best collected memories. Your shared history is unique to the two of you, so make sure that you embellish some of your most cherished moments together; before leading onto your bullish list of compliments and things you love!
When you're detailing what makes you smile about your other half, make some notes separately and try to pick the ones which are unique to him or her. Saying that their sense of humour is what made you fall in love is great, but your friends can make you laugh too. Instead, single out an individual characteristic that exists only in your partner and describe it. Make it clear how unique this is and how your life has been changed (for the better!) since you met.
When you read your letter over, don't be scared about how corny it sounds. As long as everything you say is true and you feel the way you do, the authenticity will shine through to your partner and they'll forgive your washy sentiments in the light of love!
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