How Do I Know If He Is Ready for Love? 3 Signs That Say The Answer Is No
You can't always tell with 100 percent accuracy whether or not someone is really ready for love, but there are some signs that you can look for that might suggest that the man you are either dating or interested in is not at that point in his life. One of the ways in which a woman can save herself from a lot of frustration is to be able to tell if a guy is really worth pursuing or if he isn't really mature enough to handle an adult relationship. It doesn't matter what his age is, there are plenty of guys who are in their twenties and thirties who are not really at that point where they can handle a lasting relationship.
Here are 3 signs that will suggest that a guy really isn't ready yet:
1) He has a long history of running from responsibility.
You can't expect a guy like this to just change the way that he is overnight. One of my friends was starting to date a guy who had two kids by two different women that he didn't take responsibility for and I tried to warn her that he probably wasn't the kind of guy she should be in a relationship and guess what? She didn't listen and he ended up leaving her owing lots of money. His track record does have some bearing on what he is going to be like in a relationship, so it is something that you might want to pay attention to.
2) He has a hard time making decisions for himself.
Some guys need the input of others because they really don't know how to make decisions in life. You have to ask yourself if you would really want to be in a relationship with a man like that. Wouldn't you prefer to be with someone who is able to make decisions for themselves? After all, if you end up being his girlfriend, chances are good that he is going to want you to do most or all of the decision making and that doesn't really make for an equal relationship, does it?
3) He stays in contact with other women he has dated.
There are reasons why this may be the way that he is. Some guys have a hard time detaching themselves from an ex girlfriend, while some of the time it might come down to the fact that he wants to have "backups" just in case things don't work out with you. I am not saying that it is always a bad sign, but if he stays in contact with multiple women he has dated, there is a good chance that he really is not ready for love just yet.
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