Friday, March 29, 2013

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Love Advice for Guys - Why You Shouldn't Fall in Love Too Fast


You hear it all of the time, only it usually is talked about after a relationship comes to an end. A guy talks about how quickly he fell in love with a woman and how that probably played a part in the relationship ultimately coming to an end. Even though it may be tempting and it may seem like the right thing to do - you have to be careful about falling in love with a woman too quickly.
Here is why you shouldn't do that:
1. You need to have experience when it comes to dating.
You can't really know what you want in a relationship if you don't have much experience with women. You might THINK you know exactly what it is that you want, but you don't really know until you are in a relationship and you have some idea of what it is that you are really seeking in someone you end up dating. The more experience that you have, the more likely it is that you are going to end up picking the right woman to be with.
2. You need to take time to really figure out who she is.
A lot of the time, when a guy looks back on a relationship where it seems like he fell in love with a woman too quickly, he realizes that he didn't really know the woman as well as he thought he did. If you want to be in a long term relationship that works, you need to really know WHO it is that you are with and it takes time to really get an accurate view of the person you are dating.
3. You don't want to mistake love for intense desire.
Really, a lot of the time when a guy says that he fell in love with a woman really fast, the reality is that it was more like he had an intense desire and intense attraction for that woman. That can be a good thing, but you really don't want to mistake that for being love when it is infatuation at best.
It's okay to want to fall in love, you just have to be careful that you don't move too fast. You need to take your time and gain some experience if you really want to have the best odds of being in a successful relationship. Many guys make the mistake of falling for a woman almost instantly and you really need to check yourself on that.

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