Subtle Ways To Plant Sexy Suggestions In A Woman's Mind
I'd like to give you two examples of how to use 'indirect suggestion' to go about seducing a woman. And when you get this under your belt (it's not difficult), you'll find you really can win just about any girl you want.
Here's the first example. I was talking quite recently to a very attractive Polish girl I know. I was telling her how I'd become a real fan of female Polish singers - so much so that I'd downloaded several albums.
She asked me how I could enjoy the songs if they were in Polish. I told her I love the sound of Polish, anyway, even though I didn't know what they were saying. I said they could be singing about how to boil cabbage, for all I know. But in my mind, I could imagine them saying things like, "Let us make passionate love together... "
An innocent enough sentence, you might think. But here's what I did.
Just before I said "... Let us make passionate love together... " I paused, leaned my head forward just a little, lowered my voice slightly, and said the words dripping with sensuality.
Now guess what went into my friend's unconscious mind as a separate and self-contained phrase?
Right. 'Let us make passionate love together.'
And guess what sort of mental pictures she has to make in order to understand what the sentence means. And guess what she's going to start thinking about when she's envisaging 'making passionate love with me'.
In hypnosis, this sort of thing is known as an embedded suggestion. And our language offers endless opportunities to plant sexy suggestions like these - and all seemingly quite innocently.
Being realistic, however, it's unlikely that just one remark like this would set her off in a frenzied craze for me. But embedded suggestions like these tend to accumulate in the unconscious mind and build on each other until they reach critical mass when they emerge into consciousness as a thought she would most likely think she thought of herself.
Regard them as an 'investment'. The more you add to them, the greater the eventual pay off.
Here's the second example to emphasise the point. And this one was quite out of the ordinary.
I have a great-aunt in her eighties. She invites me to lunch every few months along with some of her equally-elderly girlfriends. (It's a family obligation, but it's not as boring as it sounds, actually. Some of these old girls can be quite a scream.)
Several years ago, I had told her I was researching and writing a book called The Master Seducer's Handbook. Well, of course, she couldn't help mentioning this at the next lunch. Most of the others found this somewhat titillating, although a couple looked at me as though I had suddenly crawled out from under a rock.
But she set off rather loud guffaws all round when she then told them, "John says it's possible to seduce a girl within minutes."
After several harumphs, one of them, Ivy, a tough old bird, thrust her chin out and demanded that I prove it by 'sweeping her off her feet' - not expecting for a moment that I had the slightest chance.
I was obviously stuck. But a challenge is a challenge, so I pulled up a chair and positioned myself opposite her.
I began telling her about a 'movie I saw recently'. It was (supposedly) set during the war, when an Allied airman was spending his last night with the love of his life before he set off next morning on a dangerous mission from which he was unlikely to return.
The scene was tender and intimate, I explained. "And he took her hand in his, like this... " (I took Ivy's hand in mine), "and he gazed deeply into her eyes... " (I gazed deeply into Ivy's eyes), "and then he said to her in a low and sensuous voice... " (I spoke in a low and sensuous voice), "I want to take you to bed and spend a night of delirious and uninhibited passion with you, and take you to the heights of sensual delight until we both collapse, exhausted, in each other's arms... "
I continued, shovelling every ounce of mush I could into the narrative.
Within minutes, Ivy began to blush and squirm. Finally, she leant back in her chair, said "phew" and began fanning her face with her hand.
Several of the other old biddies were similarly affected.
Now, obviously, I don't go around seducing eighty-year-old women at the drop of a hat. And of course the 'movie' story was totally made up. But I definitely proved my point.
The fact is, you can say the most sexually suggestive things without offence, so long as you attribute them to someone else, and if you put them in the right context. But the effect in the woman's mind will be the same as if you said them directly to her.
(I deliberately chose a war story for Ivy, knowing this would be most relevant to her own experiences.)
Now, you might doubt the effectiveness of this technique. But let me ask you this - what do you reckon would be going through your mind if a female said exactly the same kind of thing to you?
I suggest you look for opportunities where you can practise this technique. With a bit of creativity you'll find you can use it just about anywhere. And you'll quickly realise just how potent it can be.
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